Do men ever truly love you? In the beginning when they are pursuing you they'd treat you like a princess, say all the right things, do all the fancy stuff and be a complete gentleman. Once they've got you, there is a drastic change in their behavior. The free spirited being who seemed like he was born a century earlier because of his forward thoughts all of a sudden is an all binding orthodox. An absolute change of character where everything you do is scrutinized and judged like you're a criminal being prosecuted. Anything and everything you do is wrong and you should've apparently asked their advice before taking that step. Where is all that big talk about men and women being equal crap gone? The belief that the era is long gone where women were considered to have a lower position in the society and they are totally capable of making their own decisions?
Supposedly when guys hang out with their "chick friends" its acceptable and normal and there is no reason for us to feel insecure but WE girls cant do that with our guy friends. A wee bit hypocritical don't you think? True love as described in books and movies shouldn't want to cage you and shouldn't expect you to follow orders like a pet. True love should have full faith on the other. Okay, I agree that we do make mistakes, its not like we were carved perfect but you shouldn't have to hold on to it and bring it out in every argument you make even when its not relevant to the conversation. Its so frustrating when they don't even wanna hear your side of the story or give you a chance to explain the situation. Maybe your point of argument is valid and if we accept our folly and are apologizing then forgive us rather than staying mad about it and constantly fighting about it. I think if women were angry about the same stuff then they mostly would forgive their partner. We are humans and bound to make mistakes and then learn our lessons. Women kinda have always been the kinder lot. We melt down too easily. Blame it on estrogen. Damn you hormone!!!! Sometimes I wish we were stronger and learn to hold our ground for longer. We don't let our egos play a bigger role while making decisions. We listen to our hearts more than anything else and let the emotions take the better of us. Men listen to their egos. Their egos are their best friends, advocates and lovers. Egos make them feel better about themselves. Their egos kinda makes them believe that they are somehow always right! I mean how is it even possible that a person is ALWAYS right? I think there really is a gene that inculcates the male chauvinism into guys. I mean it comes pretty naturally to them. Its impossible that they learn or adapt that characteristic over time. Nope! Its in them. In every freaking cell in their bodies! It always has to be "My way" or "No way". Its so bloody annoying!
Its hard to believe that in the 21st century men still haven't changed and that they are the same chauvinistic pigs that they were before. Looks like this one attribute doesn't change no matter how much they evolve. They would give up on love but not their ego. They would rather live alone than accept that their partner's right. Becoming fathers somehow mellows them down but does not entirely get rid of that "I'm always right attitude". I really wish men were actually like how they are portrayed in the books and the movies. I guess relationships wouldn't be that hard to manage then. Whatever you may do but men just somehow are never pleased, there still will be something to complain about or just not good enough. *sigh*
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